Hooked on Valentine’s Day

by hookedonhouses on February 12, 2009

Valentine’s Day is one of the highlights of winter for me. A bright spot in a string of long, cold, dark days that we have here in the Midwest during this time of the year. It gives us a chance to have a bit of color around. I fantasize about redecorating my house with fresh pinks like the ones in this Southern Living kitchen, or bright reds like in the bedroom from BHG below.

My husband and I started dating right before Valentine’s Day–our first date was on February 7–so this time of year also reminds me of that “new-in-love” feeling. Do you know what he gave me on our first Valentine’s Day together? A black rose. That’s right. (He’ll love that I’m telling you this!) It was left outside on a windowsill overnight so it would stay “fresh.”

It froze. By the time Dave gave it to me, the rose was purplish-black and falling apart. You know you like a boy a lot when he gives you a dead flower and you keep dating him anyway! We joke that he was just setting the bar low so that all of his gifts in years to come would look good in comparison.

Each year I make him take me to a chick-flick or romantic comedy for Valentine’s Day, and he’s a good sport about it. Today I’m dragging him to see the movie version of one of my favorite books:


Confessions of a Shopaholic

I love the Shopaholic series by Sophie Kinsella. If you haven’t read them, I’m telling you, they are laugh-out-loud funny. Critics are saying the film version isn’t as good, but I’m a big enough fan that I’ll go and pay good money to see it anyway. I even went to a book signing when Sophie Kinsella came to town and took about 50 photos of her, like a stalker. (She’s just as sweet and fun as you’d imagine when reading her books, by the way!)

What are you doing for Valentine’s Day? Whatever it is, I hope it’s a good one!

Now it’s your turn to tell us what you’re hooked on today! If you have something to share with us on your blog, add your link below. Just please be sure to:

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Hooked on Fridays Participants

1. maya (hooked on reading outside children\’s book giveaway)
2. Kim @ Forever Wherever (Bookstore)
3. Mary Beth {Valentine Treats}
4. The Summer Kitchen Girls
5. Terry Kearns
6. Arleen @ Seasons for All at Home (hand painted furniture)
7. PamperingBeki (Family Valentine\’s)
8. LexyB
9. Ann Kroeker (PG Tips tea)
10. Creations From My Heart (Handmade Valentine)
11. Living With Lindsay
12. Katie – Flower shops in Europe
13. Julie @ Organizement (functional furniture)
14. Jill – Hooked on Bird Cages
15. Just a Blink (Hooked on Building a Soft Place to Land)
16. Maya (Pink Beach Getaway)
17. Taya @ Delightful (romance all year)
18. Fifi Flowers Design Decor
19. Dagny @ Beautiful Living (hooked on ebay!)
20. Lynne, Tea for Joy
21. astrid @ lopsided house (valentine\’s day treats)
22. Puna
23. Tidymom
24. Suzy
25. susan (Your home, only better.)
26. Darla~Sassy Homemaker (Butler\’s Pantries)
27. RehabOrDie.com — Hooked on Feline Endorsements
28. Linda@Lime in the Coconut (sweet simplicity)
29. Lacy – hooked on a luxury hotel!
30. Christy (Where to Meet Cute British Men. Tomorrow.)
31. pedaling (basement re-design)
32. Deb@ribbonwood
33. Kristin @ Pumpkin Cottage
34. Pretty Organized (Cleaning Nuclear messes!)
35. Carolina Mama (Fitness Rocks!)
36. melissa * 320 sycamore (sugar cookies…kind of)
37. Luphia {Hooked on Hôtel Vernet Paris}
38. WAYFARING WANDERER (Big News)
39. Newlyweds (Red Velvet Cupcakes)
40. Our Nifty Notebook (conversation hearts)
41. Holly@Homebody (live houseplants)
42. breathing,dreaming
43. Kimm at Reinvented (B Mine)
44. Supernatural Botanicals, Discussions On All Things Girly
45. Deb/Dumbwittellher
46. The Masked Mommy (easy valentine treats)
47. Eileen @ Star\’s Fault
48. Amy @ Finer Things (sharing my valentine)
49. Leisa Tobler
50. IdeaMom
51. Tamara
52. Troischats (helping the Aussie Bushfire victims)
53. velvet and linen
54. Hopeful – sweets and treats
55. ImagineCozy
56. Gigi @ Lemonade Home
57. coco@ordinary miracles
58. Studio M Designs(kids rooms)
59. Isa (hooked on Southern Charm!)
60. Cyber Flowers
61. Cass at That Old House

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*Melissa at The Inspired Room is having a “Beautiful Life” blog party today. She also has a great recap from BlissDom posted that you should check out! I also just discovered Finer Things Friday, another fun carnival going on!*

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1 Gigi February 13, 2009 at 9:55 pm

Wow, I barely got my link in before Friday was over! Phew.
I’ve read every single Shopaholic book too. I’m jealous you got to see Sophie Kinsella!
Ira Glass was in D.C. on Wednesday and I did. not. go. Am so mad at myself, as I am such a fan. I would definitely have been stalking him with my camera too!
Off to see what everyone else is hooked on this week…
Happy Valentine’s Day!

Gigi’s last blog post..Saturday Shopping Trip

2 coco February 13, 2009 at 10:05 pm

I finally got my link here…it wouldn’t work all day! :( Went to see the Shopaholic with my daughter today, we loved it! My sweet husband and I went to our favorite Tapa’s place for an early Valentine dinner tonight and then took advantage of our warmer weather and took a little after dinner stroll through downtown. Happy Valentine’s Day!

coco’s last blog post..outdoor living…

3 Misti @ Studio M Designs February 14, 2009 at 12:02 am

Love the black rose! I am just thankful my husband got his flat tire fixed to get home to me for Valentine’s day. He works out of town now, so we are very happy to have him home for a short weekend stay.
Have a very Happy Valentine’s Day.
~Misti

Misti @ Studio M Designs’s last blog post..Design Inspiration: Just for Kids

4 Isa February 14, 2009 at 12:22 am

I love the black rose story and I love that first picture! I want that table :)
We’re going to stay in and cook a feast, drink wine and lay low. A nice end to a very crazy and way too busy week.
Happy Valentines Day – I love your blog!
xo Isa

Isa’s last blog post..Southern Charm

5 Jen@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam February 14, 2009 at 4:06 pm

Oh my…I tried to walk away from the computer for the last day and a half, and I can’t believe I missed this great post and link up. How fun. Too funny about the black rose. I love that. Isn’t it so fun to read each other’s posts now and actually “see” the person behind it. Love it!! :)

Jen@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam’s last blog post..Shopping the house with a little spray paint

6 Kathy :) February 14, 2009 at 5:36 pm

Happy Valentine’s Day Julia…loved the black rose story….my hubby took the day off yesterday and we went to the ocean (cold but we love it) and had lunch at our fave place….tonight we are grilling steaks and just hanging out…low key.

All the best,
Kathy :)

7 Cass February 14, 2009 at 6:12 pm

Wow, Julia, I am in AWE of your website and blog. I have been Hooked On Houses since I was a little girl, and just this year bought a 176 year old house; it’s my dream come true.

I will be back to your blog over, and over, and over again! Many thanks for such an amazing resource. You are a role model for sure!

Love the black rose story. How sweet. As I like to say to my husband, it’s a good thing we think the men in our lives are cute! My husband brought me a single yellow rose on our first date — all he could afford — but he brought it to the neighbors by mistake!

For Valentine’s Day, it’s filet mignon, asparagus, and some good aged Scotch in front of the parlor fireplace. One of the benefits of the empty nest!

Best wishes, Cass

Cass’s last blog post..If It Weren’t For The Hand-Washing. . .

8 Charlie February 15, 2009 at 7:33 am

I smiled while reading about the black rose! What immediately stands out is that he wanted you to have the perfect red rose so he put it outside to keep it fresh! How many young men do that? It’s sweet and oh so romantic! My husband proposed to me on Valentine’s Day and 16 years later he always makes that day beyond special for me. Our daughter was born on the 06th of February so we have lots to celebrate around this time of year.

Happy Valentine’s Day and thank you for sharing your romantic real-life story!

Charlie’s last blog post..Happy Holidays…

9 Melissa Lewis - Off The Wall February 15, 2009 at 11:48 am

Oh Julia, I am drooling over this kitchen. Hope you had a very sweet and lovely Valentines Day:)

10 Liz@VioletPosy February 17, 2009 at 11:59 am

Oh I adore that kitchen!! I had to pass this week on ‘Hooked on’ as I had to help my parents with their summerhouse. But I’ll be checking out those links later :)

Liz@VioletPosy’s last blog post..Facebook Change of Terms and Conditions

11 laura @ the shore house February 18, 2009 at 1:36 am

I love the black rose story…sounds like something that would happen to me…via the man in my life. :-)

That kitchen picture is making me want to paint my cabinets white. One of these days…now that the kitchen is as “done” as it’s going to be at the shore house for a while…I need to take pictures and solicit some bloggerific feedback.

laura @ the shore house’s last blog post..Real friends, real estate, real good times.

12 Üdo Ümami February 22, 2009 at 1:41 pm

How about a post-Valentine’s Day breakfast…. xoxox <3 Üdo

13 Madeleine February 27, 2009 at 7:49 pm

We never used to bother with Valentines day, thought of it as commercialism gone mad. This year we did celebrate it, I think 11 years of marriage means you need to find excuses to get romantic LOL!

Anyway it was a heap of fun so I definately plan to go all out next year – thanks for the ideas.

Madeleine’s last blog post..Top MandM 10 NZ Christian Blogs January 08

14 ida March 3, 2009 at 6:00 am

well i say i dont bother with it but i am a lyer. my valentines days in the past were pretty jacked up. had an operation on one. my father was buried on another. had an ex that only showed love on the ones from 87 to 90. and 91 was sitting in the desert. sooooooooo…. normally its a jacked up day. but, a few years ago my very best friends mom had a stroke. and he was stressed. it happened in march. well my mom died from heart problems. and i told him he needed to give her some flowers and tell her how much he loved her. he was confused and i told him that valentines day should be 365 days a year. not just that one day. so at lunch he went and sent his mom some roses. that night she sat there and hugged his hand and was thrilled to death. and of course that made that over 50 year old man thrilled too. so we celebrate 365. but, i personally throw in home baked goods for him and he acts like a teenager around me. lol… made my 16 year old kid sick of us. hope you had a good day.

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